Love is a hot topic; let's hope so anyway.

Love is about relationships and freedom even though your experience right now may be about loneliness and pain. Love is a necessary part of our working system much in the same way as our central nervous system, our breath, our thought process and our capacity for joy. Love is as necessary a part of our life as eating, breathing and digesting our foods and as simple -- except we make it difficult and call it 'elusive'.

Think about it: do you have to sit there in your chair and consciously tell your body to breath? Would your digestive system work if we didn't consistently send a conscious command to 'digest that soup and sandwich I just had for dinner'? No, our systems work naturally and automatically, while we're awake and while we're asleep. We can't survive without them no matter how much we take them for granted.

Now love is as automatic as breathing, pumping blood and digesting our food.The difficulty comes when we try to control it.